Goodbye, Farewell…
Thursday, May 28th, 2009
by Isaure Cointreau
Let’s not get too sentimental as the academic year has passed so quickly. We are already in June and most of the Erasmus students are taking their leave. One after the other, the despedidas are taking place as the summer starts and the holidays are the next best thing on the menu. People are, for one going back home and then either they work or travel but one thing is for sure, they are not coming back.
Reminiscing our crazy nights, our laughs, incredible trips and fiestas, who knew the power of goodbye would make us reach for the past more than helping us set a foot in the future? However before moving on, I like to think about what an incredible adventure this was.
I remember when I left for Madrid I had nothing more than my suitcase and no connections whatsoever. I was the only one of my program to have chosen the Spanish capital as a destination; however it turned out pretty well. My first encounter happened in the plane and eventually became my roommate. Meeting people randomly in bars, clubs or the Metro, the Erasmus card could be played repeatedly as a member of the foreign community was never far away. Before Uni started everyone was completely lost but was enjoying the hell of it, embracing a new life.
After a while, the exploration of Madrid became a little less thrilling than what was surrounding it. With our will to change sights and our motivation on taking every opportunity to get a good grasp of the Iberian culture, trips were organized. Segovia, Avila, Sevilla, Salamanca and many more were our destinations and some of us fell in love with the Spanish soil. Splashing its cultural goodness in our faces, we were stroked by its incredibly rich variety. The heritage embodied in the architecture and history, the warmth and pride of the people, the respect of traditions and the will to move forward and of course the proximity of the beach, what is there not to love?
Madrid offers a grand welcome to all newcomers and to those who embrace it well, it can almost feel like home. I am not one who will contradict that feeling. Although my studies at the Autonoma have come to an end, my stay hasn’t. Desperate to postpone my leave, I was on the hunt for a reason to stay such as a job or an internship. Now that I have found such an occupation, the few stayers and I bid our farewells to the ones flying back. How odd it is to see that life goes on in Spain without those we lived everything with. Feeling almost like family, I believe these friends we made here will stay as such for long.
As much as it feels like a page is turning to never be flipped again, I only see it as Act 3 starting. The huge difference between the first and second semester is the reason why it feels like this. Though seeing as the latter was such an improvement from the other, I can only have high hopes for what is coming. However I will always feel a bit of nostalgia when thinking of Halloween in Sevilla, the Chupeteria in Salamanca, St Patrick’s day, Marco and “El olivo”, and the crazy Americans at “The penthouse”.
Erasmus although you are long gone and initiated the concept of studying abroad indirectly, I would like to thank you. Though you were more of an inspiration, you were the seed that made the project bloom. This experience is an enlightenment upon life through experiencing the unknown and understanding another culture. For those who have been able to enjoy the studying as much as the traveling and partying, meeting new people in a new country, I feel I can say that this was an eye opening experience that will stay with us forever.


